So here we are at the final instalment of Tracey Cox’s bucket list of 50 sexual things you have to try at least once. In this final instalment, we were all delighted with the idea of spying on the neighbours as they have sex. We thought that was a wonderful suggestion and have all added it to our list. Because of course, none of us has done it.
The other one no one in our group had tried was the sex workshop. It quite surprised us and we each thought we need to add it to our list.
Sex with a virgin. It’s a narcissist thrill knowing you’ll forever be remembered.
Sex when you know someone is watching. Brings out the exhibitionist in all of us.
Spying on your flatmate or neighbours having sex. We watch people have sex all the time on porn or in the movies but rarely get to see other people have sex in real life. One reason why people also decide to…
Go to a sex party. There’s a sex soiree to cater for every whim: the bi-curious, exhibitionists, BDSM, old-fashioned orgies, fetish clubs – and almost anything else that takes your fancy.
Go to a sex workshop. If sex parties are a bit too out there, brush up on your sex skills at a fellatio class or learn how to orgasm.
We were surprised (perhaps naively) to find that Agony Aunt Coleen Nolan of The Daily Mail in the UK, has been inundated with messages from Britons claiming their sex life has been adversely affected by the coronavirus pandemic.
Now, this is not singles who can’t go out.
This is couples for whom being locked in a house with their significant other ruins their sex life.
Are you one of these folks?
Of course, if this is you, there are plenty of blog posts on our site to give you some ideas to make your COVID-19 lockdown a sexy one. Also, you can always read one of our books and get your libido going.
However, if you feel like it, Coleen Nolan is asking folk to fill in her survey examining this phenomenon.
In this edition of Pornhub Insights we’ll be getting up close and personal with two popular face related sex acts: Deepthroat and Facesitting. Pornhub’s statisticians looked at the popularity of each search, and what type of Pornhub visitor is most likely to search for them.
For us at AJAX Books it was more interesting to place Deepthroat and Facesitting side by side. It will come as no surprise men prefer to search deepthroat while women prefer to search facesitting.
For us, we had quite a discussion around deepthroat and facesitting as sexual fetishes that were perhaps equal opposites and we were interested to see them compared in this way.
When you come it comes out, is the rule of thumb when you’re placing foods in either of your “holes down there.” This means you can totally get creative with stuff like whipped cream, honey or peanut butter, but you must be able to remove it. For that reason, these sorts of foods are better around the clit or perimeum and are best removed with the tongue.
Foods like grapes or bananas that have the potential to get lost up there or mash, have a removal issue. Bacteria or a trip to the doctor (we mean a real one) can ensue and neither of those things are very sexy.
Keep it intact, keep it sexy and remove it when you come.
It’s the omega-3! Cold-water fish such as sardines, herrings, trout, anchovies and salmon will boost your sexual stamina. They’re great for overall health anyway, but with the omega-3 comes fatty acids that are critical for brain function. Inside of the whole sex boost, they fight depression and improve your mood, memory and brain power. Make sure you stock up!
There is no better time to spice up your sex life than when in lockdown. For many couples, no distraction of outside interests is good for their sex life. For others being cooped up in the house is makes once crave a bit of ‘me’ time in order to find the other attractive.
Try to work out what you need and take responsibility for it. Tell your partner, work out how to make it happen, and come back to them refreshed when you’ve had some space.
It’s a wonderful time to fulfil a couple of ‘office’ style fantasies. Everyone is joking about not wearing pants. What about having a partner sitting under your desk while you’re online and not wearing pants?
What about buying each other a cocktail at ‘after dinner drinks’ time and having it delivered.
What about buying some fairy lights to make a corner of the backyard sexy for after work drinks?
It doesn’t all have to be about booze, but it does have to be about relaxation.
Just whatever you do, turn your lockdown into a time when you get laid. A lot.