When you come it comes out, is the rule of thumb when you’re placing foods in either of your “holes down there.” This means you can totally get creative with stuff like whipped cream, honey or peanut butter, but you must be able to remove it. For that reason, these sorts of foods are better around the clit or perimeum and are best removed with the tongue.
Foods like grapes or bananas that have the potential to get lost up there or mash, have a removal issue. Bacteria or a trip to the doctor (we mean a real one) can ensue and neither of those things are very sexy.
Keep it intact, keep it sexy and remove it when you come.