It is an essential component of sexual awakening to discover inside yourself which of your six senses is your preferred sense for sexual stimulation.
If you were asked which would turn you on the most out of the following:
- Seeing your lover in sexy underwear
- Having your lover whisper softly in your ear
- Having your lover softly kiss your neck
Your answer will probably let you know if you are a visual person, an auditory person, or a kinesthetic person.
Done well, all of the above will work to seduce. But there will always be a standout.
Here is a little test.
If you have a strong connection to the below, you are an auditory person. Imagine the following:
- Hear the sound of a cat mewing
- Hear a car alarm outside your door
- Recall the voice of your favorite teacher in school
- Hear a favorite melody from a favorite song when you were younger
- Hear leaves rustling overhead
- Hear a waterfall deep in bushlands
- What noise does a rainforest make?
If the above come quickly and easily to you, then you are most probably an auditory person. Checking this out will help you give clues to your lover about what you want, but it will also be fun finding out what they like so you can take pleasure in pleasing them more.