It is an essential component of sexual awakening to discover inside yourself which of your six senses is your preferred sense for sexual stimulation.
If you were asked which would turn you on the most out of the following:
- Seeing your lover in sexy underwear
- Having your lover whisper softly in your ear
- Having your lover softly kiss your neck
Your answer will probably let you know if you are a visual person, an auditory person or a kinesthetic person.
Done well, all of the above will work to seduce. But there will always be a standout.
Here is a little test.
If you have a strong connection to the below, you are a kinesthetic person.
- Can you feel the rim of a hot cup of coffee or tea on your lips?
- What is it like to plunge your feet into wet socks?
- Recall what it is like to stroke a long-haired cat
- What is it like to pick up a large piece of wood?
- Can you sense jumping into a warm pool? A cold pool?
- Feel what it is to hold a fistful of cold marbles.
- What does an orange feel like?
If the above come quickly and easily to you, then you are most probably a kinesthetic person. Checking this out will help you give clues to your lover about what you want, but it will also be fun finding out what they like so you can take pleasure in pleasing them more.