Tantric sex has always been a bit of a mystery to us here at AJAX Books, but we confess to a bit of a fascination with the topic.
We found a nice little article in NetDoctor that describes tantric massage, which has its own connection to tantric sex. We thought it was interesting because when we thought about the tantric experience connected to massage rather than sex, we felt we understood the point far more.
Sex is often about the connection between two people as well as simply getting off. (Not that there is anything wrong with getting off).
When you think of tantric massage, and using the sexual sensations in the body to draw closer to each other, we could see the benefits of exploring this with your partner.