Make a sexy playlist with whoever is driving your erotic imaginings. These don’t have to be your favourite sexy songs. They can be songs you are finding sexy at the moment.
You can curate multiples that define mood.
When our little group did this, we found usual’s like Sade and Chris Isaak but there were interesting ring in’s like The Weeknd and Placebo.
We found sexy playlists are better dictated by mood. So, we had French versions, cocktail versions and lazy sexy Sunday afternoon versions.
Our biggest tip? Stay away from brain worms (no matter how sexy) and above all else stay away from infidelity songs. This is not the time, nor the play list.
Mostly, stick with music that won’t take you away from the moment.