It is an essential component of sexual awakening to discover inside yourself which of your six senses is your preferred sense for sexual stimulation.
If you were asked which would turn you on the most out of the following:
- Seeing your lover in sexy underwear
- Having your lover whisper softly in your ear
- Having your lover softly kiss your neck
Your answer will probably let you know if you are a visual person, an auditory person, or a kinesthetic person.
Done well, all of the above will work to seduce. But there will always be a standout.
Here is a little test.
If you have a strong connection to the below, you are a visual person.
- Can you see the largest drinking glass in your cupboard?
- Recall the interior of the last public bathroom you were in.
- See your favorite flower in bloom
- Visualize the coat of a black cat
- What does / did your favorite lover wear?
- Visualize your favorite screen actor wearing something sexy.
- What is the hottest thing you can imagine your lover wearing?
If the above come quickly and easily to you, then you are most probably a visual person. Checking this out will help you give clues to your lover about what you want, but it will also be fun finding out what they like so you can take pleasure in pleasing them more.