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Ten things sexually happy couples do

There are specific traits that happy couples share that might be a little surprising. Most of the points below can happen on a nightly basis. In fact, inside happy relationships, they almost always do happen on a nightly basis.

We read about this in a nice little article in Power of Positivity Magazine. They have listed a bunch of things that make a relationship work, from similar political and religious beliefs through to stable income and sharing moments in life. You can read the article here.

Here are ten things that they believe happy couples do every night. Adding these into your relationship are likely to greatly increase your chance of sex.

  1. Share a funny moment from your past.
  2. Perform a specific bedtime ritual (such as cleaning teeth) at the same time.
  3. Tell each other about your day and share anecdotes.
  4. Keep arguments or heated discussions out of the bedroom.
  5. Perform simple actions that indicate thoughtfulness about the other person.
  6. Kiss goodnight and or cuddle
  7. Share and rotate children’s bedtime rituals
  8. Forehead kisses
  9. Give compliments
  10. Give loving and encouraging little notes or texts.

This all made a lot of sense to us. We also think happy couples work hard at their sex lives and make sure that they have good sex lives. One important attribute of the happy couple was fidelity.

We thought that was very interesting.

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Sexual happiness


Happiness is not the result of never being unhappy. More and more as different schools of thought examine what it is to be happy, it is found that being happy typically involves some level of discomfort.


The way to be ‘happy’ in the sense that you are enjoying your life and feel good about yourself typically includes indulging in small pleasures, getting absorbed in challenging activities, setting and meeting goals, and communicating joyfully with others.


It is an observable understanding that it isn’t happiness that promotes well-being, it is the actual pursuit that is the key.


In this case, it is worth examining your sexual needs also. Joy from sex is derived by self-examination. Finding out what you like to do. Then, indulge in small sexual pleasures regularly. Masturbation and regular sex with a partner are a great way to do this.


Create some sex goals, every now and then branch out and do something you always wanted to try but have been too scared, or felt too foolish to pursue. Get advice from others; online, in therapy, or chatting with a beloved group.


Sexual happiness can be as easy (and as challenging) to create for yourself as day-to-day happiness.


Read more about how to be happy here.