Sophia Benolt examined the idea and application of going to a masturbation coach. While it sounds like a cooked-up job, masturbation coaches are crucial in helping clients deal with issues like premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and achieving orgasm.
We thought it was a wonderful relief to be able to go and talk to someone who is a professional in these areas.
It’s very common for people to experience greater sexual pleasure in masturbation than they do with a sex partner. If you are having this experience, you should know you are not alone and it is very common. There are a lot of reasons for this, but the most common is lack of sexual satisfaction from sex with your partner.
The next thing you should know is that if you want to change this, you can. You can try to talk to a partner you feel isn’t touching you the way you want to be touched. You can also use masturbation to experiment with your body and then work with your partner.
All of this depends on the level of commitment and intimacy you are willing to offer your partner.
And of course, it stands to reason, that if you are with someone that is a bit cold in bed, always ‘does it wrong’ or can’t perform in some way, be careful not to label them as deficient. They may be masturbating when you leave the house because you are deficient. If you have a partner who is a little hesitant in bed, then you can be the sort of person they might want to talk to.
That is, of course, if your aim is to experience your greatest orgasm with your partner.
Not only is masturbation good for you (healthy, normal) but it can actually assist in a relationship.
Active solo sex life has been linked to:
In terms of a relationship, it can be accurate that sex begets more sex. If you are in the habit of masturbating while in a relationship, it can lead to being comfortable with sex and it can lead to wanting to share your sex life with your partner. Masturbation and pornography can lead to an inquisitive nature and an excitement in the expansive attitude to sex.
It does not always and necessarily follow that those who masturbate are troubled, or Addicted to pleasuring their own bodies.
We’re all getting a bit sick of porn – well given how we’re now masturbating up to five times a day (!) at the moment, it’s no wonder.
For us, the best porn has always been and will always be a good book.
We have the next installment of White Flesh, Black Market. Spies in the House of Lust about to come out. We’ve had a wonderful time reading it and editing book two and we can’t wait to share it with you.
While there is a lot of people in quarantine who are experienced a decreased sex drive, it is impossible to ignore that many people are experiencing an increased sex drive.
The increased sex drive could be a response to repressed fear, a natural biological reaction when presented with the idea of personal extinction, a desire to get creative with life or boredom pure and simple.
Which ever theory you subscribe to its totally fine to feel hornier or less horny. No one should feel ridiculous for experiencing either.
However, if you feel unattractive and therefore not horny, it’s better to do some self esteem work. Life is not normal just now. Being at home is not normal. You may need to get creative with life in order to handle this odd time.
No matter what, be safe, look after yourself and be careful with others.
It seems the nude pic and the thirst trap pic have done a retro comeback – at least retro in the online sense. The online idea is, it’s COVID-19 now and after this it will be post COVID-19. So, what are you holding back for?
The thirst trap image has been touted as the new hottie image while RL dating is outta bounds. So, for those of you who are single and therefore dateless during lockdown, the great new is the online world has gotten over its shyness and reservation and no longer gives a shit about slutshaming or shameless selfies and we’re all looking for a new world.
A little note on this: maturity always goes a long way. If you don’t slutshame girls, you’ll get more nudes. It’s simple math. Be a grown up and if a girl wants to show you, just enjoy it. Show self-respect and try not to make an image mean more than an image.