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The Masturbation Coach

Do you need a coach to learn how to masturbate?

Sophia Benolt examined the idea and application of going to a masturbation coach. While it sounds like a cooked-up job, masturbation coaches are crucial in helping clients deal with issues like premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and achieving orgasm.

We thought it was a wonderful relief to be able to go and talk to someone who is a professional in these areas.

So we wanted to share the article here.

GQ has gotten a lot of love on our blog this week. This is just a reminder that we are not affiliated in any way, we just share posts that we like.

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Good for keeping down the urges

We just wanted to let you know that Kellogg’s Cornflakes were originally invented by Dr. Kellogg in the hope he could discourage people from masturbating.

Lucky for us, his experiment was a total failure. We can’t say that cornflakes turn us on, but neither do they turn us off. We had to confess to not linking Cornflakes and masturbation at all.

Fortunately, both masturbation and Kellogg’s Cornflakes survived this odd little moment in history and we now know that masturbation is really good for us.

So please feel free to masturbate and eat Cornflakes to your heart’s desire.

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The Autoblow

In the course of our week, we have discovered that not everyone knows about the wonderful Autoblow machine. So, this is a catch-up post for those who like to catch up.

We have to confess; we have not tried the Autoblow. But many people have and we can see their reviews on YouTube, so help yourself when the time is right.

But we felt that it was our duty, being so into self-pleasure and all, to bring this marvelous invention to a wider public.

Apparently the newest iteration of the Autoblow, the AI Autoblow crowd-funded its way into notoriety ion 2018.

This AI version is bigger, better, and smarter and apparently any kinks are now out of the prototype. (pardon the pun)

So, if you want your own Autoblow, pop over to the website and grab it and some other toys for boys.

We are not affiliated – we just thought this was a lot of fun.


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Why you have better orgasms alone

It’s very common for people to experience greater sexual pleasure in masturbation than they do with a sex partner. If you are having this experience, you should know you are not alone and it is very common. There are a lot of reasons for this, but the most common is lack of sexual satisfaction from sex with your partner.

The next thing you should know is that if you want to change this, you can. You can try to talk to a partner you feel isn’t touching you the way you want to be touched. You can also use masturbation to experiment with your body and then work with your partner.

All of this depends on the level of commitment and intimacy you are willing to offer your partner.

And of course, it stands to reason, that if you are with someone that is a bit cold in bed, always ‘does it wrong’ or can’t perform in some way, be careful not to label them as deficient. They may be masturbating when you leave the house because you are deficient. If you have a partner who is a little hesitant in bed, then you can be the sort of person they might want to talk to.

That is, of course, if your aim is to experience your greatest orgasm with your partner.

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Is Masturbation good for you?

Not only is masturbation good for you (healthy, normal) but it can actually assist in a relationship.

Active solo sex life has been linked to:

  1. Boosted mood
  2. Reduced stress
  3. Improved self-image.

In terms of a relationship, it can be accurate that sex begets more sex. If you are in the habit of masturbating while in a relationship, it can lead to being comfortable with sex and it can lead to wanting to share your sex life with your partner. Masturbation and pornography can lead to an inquisitive nature and an excitement in the expansive attitude to sex.

It does not always and necessarily follow that those who masturbate are troubled, or Addicted to pleasuring their own bodies.

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If it worries you that your partner might be self-gratifying, ask yourself what sort of negative messages you may be taught about masturbating as you were growing up?

It’s normal to masturbate. Your partner might be inclined to explore and work on what makes them happy.

This can only be good for your sex life.


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Porn in Hotels.

Porn in hotels.

Why do we watch so much porn in hotels? Thrill of the room? Ultimate privacy?

A survey of Hilton, Marriot, Hyatt, Sheraton, and Holliday Inn hotels found that almost 70% of their room service profits come from porn movies.

Are we watching all this porn alone or with our significant other?

Seems when the circumstances are right, we will pay for porn after all.

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Looking for Fresh Porn?

Apparently, it’s official.

We’re all getting a bit sick of porn – well given how we’re now masturbating up to five times a day (!) at the moment, it’s no wonder.

For us, the best porn has always been and will always be a good book.

We have the next installment of White Flesh, Black Market. Spies in the House of Lust about to come out. We’ve had a wonderful time reading it and editing book two and we can’t wait to share it with you.

Before we launch it – get a copy of book one.

Shake it up (!) and use a book.

You won’t be sorry.

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Why are we so horny right now?

While there is a lot of people in quarantine who are experienced a decreased sex drive, it is impossible to ignore that many people are experiencing an increased sex drive.

The increased sex drive could be a response to repressed fear, a natural biological reaction when presented with the idea of personal extinction, a desire to get creative with life or boredom pure and simple.

Which ever theory you subscribe to its totally fine to feel hornier or less horny. No one should feel ridiculous for experiencing either.

However, if you feel unattractive and therefore not horny, it’s better to do some self esteem work. Life is not normal just now. Being at home is not normal. You may need to get creative with life in order to handle this odd time.

No matter what, be safe, look after yourself and be careful with others.

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Thirst traps are all the rage again…

It seems the nude pic and the thirst trap pic have done a retro comeback – at least retro in the online sense. The online idea is, it’s COVID-19 now and after this it will be post COVID-19. So, what are you holding back for?

The thirst trap image has been touted as the new hottie image while RL dating is outta bounds. So, for those of you who are single and therefore dateless during lockdown, the great new is the online world has gotten over its shyness and reservation and no longer gives a shit about slutshaming or shameless selfies and we’re all looking for a new world.

A little note on this: maturity always goes a long way. If you don’t slutshame girls, you’ll get more nudes. It’s simple math. Be a grown up and if a girl wants to show you, just enjoy it. Show self-respect and try not to make an image mean more than an image.